“rawbbie” writes:

    I have recently moved to Las Cruces, that’s not included in my profile. I’m actually from Farmington. I left a great church when I moved down here, one that I chose with much prayer and agony. Now I’m chosing a new church with much prayer and not yet any agony but it will soon come. I guess I should start at how I got to choosing my last church and then you’ll see how hard my new decision will be.

    Two summers ago I moved back to my home town after spending two years in Kansas going to school and playing baseball. I defenitely needed a new church because I was stating a new chapter of my life. I was engaged to be married by the end of the summer and the church i went to before church had no place for newly wed college students to serve or be served, disciple and be descipled. We were involved in a bible study on having a world centered view of God. It was amazing.

    We were encouraged to make covenants before starting the study as a sort of accountability with ourselves and the others in the group. My covenants were all based on finding a new church. I think that was the best part. My priorities for the church were stated above but also included outreach to the community and the world. We found a church that fit.

    Animas Valley Community Church that Courtney and I ended up getting married in. I helped out with youth group and Courtney helped with the worship team. We did several outreaches into the community and went to the Thai-Burma border to Minister to Karen refugees this summer. This church is amazing, they all are great people who were awesome friends and family.

    We’re seeking the same here. I feel I still have to live up to the same covenants here in this pursuit of God’s place for me. We are at a deciding point. Mesilla Park Community Church is a great growing church. I don’t know how it’s growing but I think transfer growth and a deeper outreach to the college are the biggest contributors. They are afilliated with SBC so they probably send more missionaries than any of the other churches and they encourage community involvement as equal to church involvement (they only have sunday day services so people can have more time in the community). There is only one hang-up that I have: Baptism.

    I was Baptized into a Methodist church and the particular church that I went to allowed both immersion and practiced “sprinkling” (I have told people how I was baptized and they say “oh so you were sprinkled.” And I say “no, I was baptized and everbody at my church will tell you I was.”), so I didn’t see the big deal with either as long as all my friends, relatives and church family knew that I was baptized, that is that I was now burried with Christ and I shall rise with Christ.

    The SBC requires baptism by imersion. I’ll have to be re-baptized. I think I’m going to do it. I want to relate to this church, I want to be a part of it. I don’t want to just float around in society as a lost child of God, I want to be in a family and part of His body.

This is a timely topic for our church — one which the elders are currently debating. Should church membership and baptism be linked (where you can’t have one without the other)? Is baptism more of a symbolic gesture in the life of a believer nowadays? What in the world does it mean to be a member of a church, anyway?

When is a stumbling block a “speed bump” designed to slow you down and give you the time to really think through where you’re going, and when is it just plain ol’ road debris — stuff that should be removed before it hurts somebody?